Portrait of Anne Lister |
My hero:
Anne Lister
by Emma Donoghue
'She had the sexual ethics of a bonobo, lying to every lover as a matter of policy. But she also looked into her heart and wrote about what she found there with unflinching precision'
Emma DonoghueSaturdady 28 August 2010
My hero is not exactly heroic. There's nothing noble about Anne Lister (1791-1840) except in the technical sense of being "well born": she inherited Shibden Hall in Yorkshire from her uncle. Lister's less-than-noble attitudes are revealed in the 4m-word diary she kept, various selections from which have been edited by Helena Whitbread and Jill Liddington. (Whitbread's initial volume – which Virago is about to reissue – inspired me so much that I adapted it into my first play, I Know My Own Heart.) A stern snob who bullied her tenants into voting Tory, Lister despised women who were not ancient-Greek-spouting intellectuals like herself.
She also had the sexual ethics of a bonobo, lying to every lover as a matter of policy. Why is Lister my hero, then? Because she looked into her heart and wrote about what she found there with unflinching precision. "I love and only love the fairer sex and thus beloved by them in turn, my heart revolts from any love but theirs," she acknowledged on 29 October 1820. At a time when it was hard for genteel women to admit to any sexual drive at all, let alone one that caused them to fantasise about having "connection" with servant girls in huts, Lister faced the truth of her swaggering sapphism head on, and put it all down in the coded passages that make up about a sixth of her diary: the one place she told no lies.
Not only did Lister ignore her culture's rules about whom she should sleep with, she scorned the other rules of womanhood, too. Always dressed mannishly in black (and called "Gentleman Jack" by the locals), she remodelled Shibden estate, ran a colliery, was the first woman to climb several peaks in the Pyrenees, and finally formed a canny marriage of convenience and paired up with a neighbouring heiress. Not a saint, then, but a woman who seized her freedoms rather than waiting for anyone to grant them to her.
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