It’s a tossup over whether my overstuffed apartment holds more wine or more books. The number of bottles tumbled about, particularly over the pandemic year, is rivaled only by the scattered stacks of volumes that sadly will never earn shelf space.
Monday, August 17, 2026
Books to Inspire Hunger and Thirst
Mayuko Okada

Mayuko Okada
I started to be attracted to kimonos from a young age, influenced by my grandmother, who was a shopping queen as well as a kimono lover. I majored in Japanese painting at university with a dream of kimono related art.
Sunday, August 16, 2026
Christopher Berry-Dee is the UK’s all-time bestselling true crime author. Is he also a violent abuser of women and children?
Christopher Berry-Dee is the UK’s all-time bestselling true crime author. Is he also a violent abuser of women and children?
The British writer is known for his unique ability to get inside the heads of serial killers. But a Guardian investigation reveals multiple accusations of assault and child sexual abuse. What is the truth about the man described by his own daughter as ‘absolute evil’?
From the outside, it looked like the sort of happy family home a child might draw. Red brick, surrounded by rolling countryside, in Curdridge, near Winchester. Here lived the true crime writer Christopher Berry-Dee, with his second wife, Tracey Dee, and their two young daughters, Zoe and Sasha, in the early 1990s. Inside, it was a house of horrors, full of murder memorabilia. In a wardrobe were the clothes a nine-year-old girl had been murdered in. One afternoon, Zoe was playing when she found them. The now 38-year-old council worker from Romsey says she remembers “putting it all on … going downstairs and everyone being absolutely traumatised”. Later, another gruesome memento was added to the collection: the Austin Metro that convicted murderer Michael Sams had used to transport a body in 1991. Bloodied sections of the seatbelts had been cut out for forensic tests.
BBC was warned of author’s claim to possess missing clothes of child murder victim

Karen Hadaway (left) and Nicola Fellows Photograph: PA
BBC was warned of author’s claim to possess missing clothes of child murder victim
Corporation was told of claims by Christopher Berry-Dee that he had clothing, which was lost while in its possession
Saturday, August 15, 2026
Friday, August 14, 2026
Some thoughts on painting by Lucian Freud

Some thoughts on painting, by Lucian Freud
Published on 24 October 2019
"The painter’s obsession with his subject is all that he needs to drive him to work..." As his self-portraits go on show at the RA, we share Lucian Freud's only published statement on his creative process. It reveals the uncompromising intensity behind his approach to painting.
Wednesday, August 12, 2026
Some random thoughts on books

Some random thoughts on books
11 August 2026
The status of books in America today hovers between out-of-control production and irrelevance. There are probably more books being printed and published now than ever before. The ease of self-publishing, combined with the lack of literary gate keepers, produces a flood of new books every week—poetry, memoir, fiction, opinion, etc. Just send your manuscript to Amazon and they will make a book for you. Congratulations! You are a published author! Nobody will care if its good or not because almost nobody will pay attention to it.
The art of being ornamental
The art of being ornamental
Rococo fashion, hyper-femininity, and the politics of spectacle in 18th-century aristocratic culture
30 de July 2026
The Rococo period of the early to mid-18th century represents one of the most visually extravagant moments in Western fashion history. Emerging in France during the reign of Louis XV, Rococo aesthetics celebrated lightness, sensuality, artifice, and ornamental excess. Pastel silks, cascading ribbons, lace flounces, and architectural silhouettes transformed women into living embodiments of refinement and spectacle. Yet beneath this softness lay a complex system of power, performance, and social hierarchy. Rococo fashion was not merely about beauty—it was about visibility.
Diane von Furstenberg Tells the Story Behind Her Iconic Andy Warhol Paintings

© The Andy Warhol Foundation for the Visual Arts, Inc. / Licensed by Artists Rights Society (ARS), New York
Diane von Furstenberg Tells the Story Behind Her Iconic Andy Warhol Paintings
6 August 2026
Happy Birthday, Andy! Today marks what would have been 98 years of Interview renowned founder. To celebrate, one of Warhol’s closest friends and muse, Dian von Furstenberg,wrote him a birthday note reminiscing on the fateful night these Polaroids were captured and how they went on to become some of the most well-known works in Warhol’s oeuvre. The following letter provides a snapshot of the artist at work, as well as a taste of the bustling social scene of ’70s New York City. More of Warhol’s Polaroids are currently on display as part of the Andy Warhol Family Album exhibition at the Whitney Museum running now through October 19. —BRENDAN KENNEDY
Tuesday, August 11, 2026
Dressing the woman within
Dressing the woman within
Reclaiming sensuality and sexiness in style and self
Virginie Tolly
22 October 2025
Having worked with many women over the years in fashion styling, I’ve noticed something striking. Most shy away from the word “sexy.” They say they prefer to be seen as “feminine,” “elegant,” or sometimes “sensual,” but almost never sexy. And yet, aren’t these just different expressions of the same experience? Different tones of the same music? It’s like a volume dial turning up from feminine to sensual to sexy. In truth, the word “sexy” doesn’t really exist on its own. It’s not something separate from us, a label we choose to wear or reject. It’s part of the much broader, richer experience of being a woman. When we resist the word, we’re often not rejecting our own sensuality; we’re rejecting what society has made the word mean. Because the problem isn’t the feeling, it’s the social consequences of embracing it.
Where have all the warriors gone?
Where have all the warriors gone?
A reflection on men, style, and identity crisis
2 September 2025
More than ever, men seem to have lost their connection with style. That quiet but powerful language that once said everything before a man ever spoke.
When fashion meets the year of the horse
When fashion meets the year of the horse
Using style as a grounding and intentional practice for 2026
What does Chinese New Year have to do with style or fashion, apart from selling endless tons of decorative merchandising products in retail? What if there were a more meaningful correlation between the two? What if the way you dress in 2026 could influence how you move through your year, your decisions, your presence, your being, and even your state of mind?
Sunday, August 9, 2026
Madrid / A fantastic tour
Madrid
A fantastic tour
At dusk, walking up to the palace I could see a statue of a horse and its rider silhouetted against the palace. The rider’s sword was raised high, standing out against the darkening sky. Groups sat on the steps of the fountain enjoying the view and each other’s company. In the evening, the area took on a fairytale atmosphere with a multi-coloured, twirling carousel and twinkling fairy lights. We were serenaded by a Spanish guy who said his mother was from the same city Viva is from (what a coincidence – it’s just too bad he knew absolutely nothing about the city or where it was) and then asked us for 10 euro. An Instagram Husband/Boyfriend provided much entertainment as he followed his partner around taking multiple pictures - maybe he was happy to do this because she only smiled at him when he was taking a picture. The palace and the vast gardens are very romantic and it was good to see that Madrid is accepting of LGBT+ couples with multiple couples freely walking around the park hand-in-hand.
Day Trips from Rome / Two things to do around Rome
Day Trips from Rome
Two things to do around Rome
Maya de Silva
20 de mayo de 2019
1. Ostica Antica: Stepping back in time
What to do
As you enter the site you will step onto what remains of an old road; large blocks of stone inlaid in the ground provide a different (if somewhat harsh on the knees) walking experience. It is considerably easier walking along the ground on either side of the road but I would recommend walking on the stones at least for a while to truly enjoy the experience of walking down a vast avenue with ancient ruins on either side. This main road is called Decumanus Maximus and as you walk along you will encounter remains of arches along the right side as well as marble pillars.
Saturday, August 8, 2026
London Insights 2
London Insights
Five things to do around London Bridge - Part Two
1 January 2017
This is part of a continuing series on places to visit and things to do in London from a local’s perspective. From watching Shakespearean plays to visiting museums, seeing London from several hundred feet above the ground to having a drink in a pub going back to medieval times, there is never a shortage of things to do.
London Insights 1
London Insights
Five things to do around London Bridge - Part One
Maya de Silva
1 November 2016
Visitors may not think of London Bridge as being a tourist hot spot in the same way they think of the West End but recent developments have resulted in a variety of restaurants, bars, cafes and open spaces which have created a fantastic atmosphere. The area is all the more special because it successfully balances the modern and the historic; you can walk along cobbled streets while gazing up at the Shard.
Copenhagen / The most perfectly designed city I have seen
Copenhagen
The most perfectly designed city I have seen
Maya de Silva20 July 2019
Copenhagen may just be the most perfectly designed city I have seen. The roads are broad. The pavements are broad. All roads have a cycle track (this is necessary because 52% of the population cycle). Buses are frequent and cover most locations, supplemented by a metro. Recycling bins are divided into various categories instead of the catch all ‘recycle’ bins seen in other cities.



















